While we were sitting at a table in the breakroom during our lunch hour, my Estonian coworker pulled out his itinerary to ask the group of us questions to see if we could offer any advice. The first thing I brought up? His itinerary's title of "West Coast Trip" was inaccurate: the more correct title would be "West Coast and Southwest Trip." As soon as I pointed it out, I realized that I was correcting an insignificant problem, and one that he hadn't asked for help with. I immediately apologized for being overly pedantic. In good humor, he scribbled out part of the title, leaving only "Trip" behind.
I have been a pedant for most (if not all) of my adult life, but I think I've been even more scrutinous lately. I know that I'm doing it because my job is to catch errors and flaws in writing and when you do that day in and day out, it becomes hard to "turn it off" when I'm not working. In an effort to be less of a jerk, I'm trying to be more aware of my corrections. So far, I'm starting to catch myself as I make the unnecessary -- and unwanted -- corrections. Now I just need to be able to catch myself before I say anything at all.
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